Do you remember being so sure of something? The way you saw something was so deeply rooted in your mind of what you believed the way it was, you could and possibly would argue your stance. Then at some point something changed, you had more/new data, you ignored information, you had flawed data or a change of heart. So many of us stand firm in a belief and are not open to possibly someone else’s perspective. Many times perspective is based on ones experience and the data they collected and our perspective is based on ours. Many of us are not willing to change how we see things and I believe this currently reflects in what we see happening in todays society. But sometimes, just sometimes our perspective changes.
There is so much we could say about societies racial and gender injustices, sexuality prejudice, socioeconomic disparities and perspectives that create the current divide in this country and the world. All very good topics that need exploration and challenged to expand your perspective beyond your own understanding. However, my challenge is a far more personal and often fragile perspective. What is your perspective about you? Is it realistic? Is it fair? Is it harsh? Is it holding you back? Ask yourself – What is my perspective of me? Or how do I see myself? For many of us it’s a question we avoid.
The literary world and Hollywood has explored this crisis of belief about oneself for decades. Among some of my favorites are Scrooge, It’s a Wonderful Life, Bill Murray in Scrooged, a twist on the Dickens classic , Mathew Perry in 17 Again, Jennifer Garner 13 Going on 30, Simba in Lion King and probably my favorite The Incredible Family in The Incredibles. The main character or characters go through a crisis of belief about themselves. An event or series of events challenges the current perspective they have about themselves. In all these examples the main character has a flawed view of themselves. Personally, I have lived this.
For most of my life, my perspective of myself has been seriously flawed. For as long as I can remember, I have never felt ‘good enough’ and that I didn’t deserve something. Then nine years ago, a friend challenged me with these questions “Have you ever seen yourself the way God does?”, “Does God make junk?” , “Why don’t you deserve (fill in the blank)? No matter my perspective rebuttal – they were not having it – One of my biggest rebuttals was “You don’t know what I have done!” My friend challenged me read about King David.
David had great faith, wrote so many beautiful psalms, slayed Goliath yet in 2 Samuel 11 – we learn King David lusted after Bathsheba, sent for her and committed adultery. Bathsheba learns of her pregnancy and sends word to her King. When David learns of this – he then begins orchestrating the death of Bathsheba’s husband Uriah the Hittite. His perspective at that moment was he took what he wanted and eliminated what he felt was the issue and that was Uriah. And yes there were consequences for David’s sin. But his repentance was sincere and deep. God still forgave and did great things through him and his son Solomon. Jesus’ lineage is from the house of David. The events of David’s life helped change my perspective about what God wants for me, slowly but it changed.
It has taken the last nine years to recognize God sees me through the blood of His Son. Through salvation I am imperfectly perfect and you are or can be through a personal relationship with our Father. Seeing yourself the way God see us, significantly changes your perspective. That change lifts weight off of you figuratively and for me literally. The bible verse of the week is Psalms 139:14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.
The following scriptures are small glimpses of God’s grace and how wonderfully made we are and if we can just make that connection and have the confidence in who we are. If we could just ourselves the way God sees us, the emotional bagged starts dropping by the way side.
Weekly Reading Plan
The challenge this week is to stop the negative self talk. As you enter prayer time, focus on areas where you are challenged to believe you are worth that achievement.
Monday’s Scripture: Colossians 1:13– 14 For he has rescued us from the dominion of darkness and brought us into the kingdom of the Son he loves, (14) in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins.
Is there something that God has forgiven you for but you haven’t let go of? Mediate on why this is. In your prayer time ask God to take this from you.
Tuesday’s Scripture: Ephesians 3:12 In Him and through faith in Him we may approach God with freedom and confidence.
Do you struggle to feel ‘free’ from past sins? Do you ever feel unworthy of God’s forgiveness? Today I challenge you to do something a little different – take a walk, no music, no podcast, no dogs, kids etc. Take a walk with God – talk to Him – Listen – ask Him to go to Him speak freely and have the confidence in Him that he will free you from what it is holding you back.
Wednesday’s Scripture: Psalms 139:13–14 For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.
You are wonderful – what you do is wonderful. Are you doubting that? Do one thing for someone else today. Don’t over plan it, be aware of your surroundings and what someone may need. A simple smile, hello or an errand ran. The best gift to ourselves and remembering who awesome God designed is to be is realized when helping others.
Thursday’s Scripture: 2 Corinthians 12:9 But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.
Do you have a kryptonite? Is there an area that you continue to just doubt you are worth that? A job promotion, a ministry, a relationship? Work on turning it over to God . Ask him to change your perspective about yourself? Ask him to teach you to leave the baggage at the door and not to pick it up.
Friday’s Scripture: 1 Corinthians 2:3– 5 I came to you in weakness with great fear and trembling. (4) My message and my preaching were not with wise and persuasive words, but with a demonstration of the Spirit’s power, (5) so that your faith might not rest on human wisdom, but on God’s power.
God’s power formed a universe, His Words brought light into the world. Where do you need Spirit’s power? where is your faith resting on human wisdom. Today I challenge you to journal – what is that you have learned this week.
Weekend Scripture 2 Samuel 11: 1-27
(due to the length, the script has not be included – use link below)
https://www.biblica.com/bible/niv/2-samuel/11/
Last week I asked you some questions about your journey. Has your perspective changed regarding the journey or yourself? I remember the moment that my perspective changed about my self-worth. I was 330 lbs., my back and knees constantly hurt. I ran into that friend and she was looking amazing. I asked her what she had been doing cause I needed to do something. She shared with me the program and it was costly and meant I had to go to a medical facility (not surgery). I had every excuse in the book. She said to me – you’d find away to do anything for your kids, right? Then do this because you deserve it as much as they deserve anything. I remember thinking if my friend thought if I was worth it, why didn’t I. Add in the other friendly reminder – (“Have you ever seen yourself the way God does?”, “Does God make junk?” , “Why don’t you deserve (fill in the blank)? ) and the teaching through David – that day began the journey of self-worth for me.
My prayer for you this week is that you know that you are worthy of love, happiness and blessings beyond measure. Much of that journey begins with your perspective of you and your relationship with God. I wish you many blessings until our next blog. – GoodyearmamaKat